There is one true reality that holds most people back from ending a relationship; being alone. But why is this such a scary thing to face? Is it because of comfort and routine? Or because we want the passion that has now sizzled into unrequited love?
Oh wait…. being alone isn’t a scary thing at all. It may be impulsive or dramatic at the time but not scary. The only reason your scared is because you’ve come to the realization that there are so many things that are better for YOU instead of a relationship. Most romantic comedies and novels have us thinking it’s bad to be alone, but after you breakup with someone you are terrified that all of those fictional characters might have gone about this all wrong. Breakups are a chance to start over and be happy by yourself. To reinvent yourself into something that you couldn’t be unless you are alone. Because sometimes being alone is the best way to find yourself.
Zooey Deschanel is an incredible social icon and her activity on social media, such as Facebook, portrays how much of a well rounded person she it; I recently came across her page and found this link promoting healthy and equal relationships:
Till next time,